"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom" -Anais Nin
If you are married, a smoker, disengenuous or attached, please pass on by.
Single graduate, looking to be liberated. No children, own house, professional job. Curvy, sometimes feisty, warm, minxy, loyal, discreet, big smile, buxom, honest, feminine, perceptive, intuitive, sensual a real girl.
Hoping to enhance my already busy life with something that little bit more 'thrilling'. Ultimately, I seek a LTR, but all in good time, my time. I see BDSM, D/s as an addition to a normal, fun, already healthy and functioning relationship. I have a very vanilla identity, long may that continue. Seeking someone who wants to have a few giggles as we shut the world out & our imaginations in. I seek one on one, an intensely personal experience,sharing & challenging.
I suppose I seek my partner in every sense of the word, quid pro quo, my equal, someone to stimulate me as much mentally as physically.
My ideal Person: I prefer men who are dark haired, generally considered attractive, clean shaven, above 5 ft 9. Outer age limit is a young looking 45ish & I am strict with this. I don't seek a father figure in any sense, would sooner have a cup of earl grey.
You need to understand this is as much about a cerebral process as it is physical for me, I am looking to have you dig around a little in my mind & awaken new senses, challenge me gently. I have a real strength of character, and depth as a person. People might call me lovely, but I am also gritty and often feel things far more deeply than I let show.
Are you able to hold me with your mind, your presence & eventually capture my heart without the bind of ropes? That said what better way than to relax than with the right company & a decent quantity of rope! Bondage of all forms is a key interest as are fun games and tasks. The challenge for you is knowing what buttons to press. I don't want D/s to be the foundation of our relationship, that should be rapport, trust and respect, nonetheless I see D/s as an integral part of who I am.
Beware, I do have switchy moments when "No" means little to me and the fight for supremacy starts! Great believer that a good Dom should know how it feels from the flip side of the coin.
I hope to be coaxed into submission, encouraged not bullied or shamed, berated or to have my character squashed or heavily moulded. Just gently led in the right direction, training offered where interest is shown. Slowly, with tactility and mutual awareness.
Looking for a man who seeks a one on one relationship. A gentleman, intelligent, relaxed in his demeanour, conversant in the ways of women (read understands the need for shoes, chocolate & lipgloss), interesting & interested, ethical, gentle with his dominance, sensual, strong but caring, cultured & most of all an articulate man, with decent shibari/bondage skills? Whilst I am no 'princess' I want to be treasured as the little gem that I am. Wry smile and lowered eyes!!
I would venture to say you need to be quite an exceptional person, bit of a romantic, but subtly so, a one off. You would have to enjoy watching Top Gear snuggled up on the sofa & be equally entertained by the trio & their antics. Hope you will have me bound & protesting (or gagged) whilst I show my wrath as you block my view. (one way or another!) I jokingly call my wish list 'vanilla with spice' but that is just what I seek. I am strong, capable, independent, feisty, intelligent & balanced in my outlook. Seek a partner to compliment me.
RLB you opened my eyes during our tumoultuous time together. For good & bad, thank you for showing me a glimpse of a life & a love, a little less ordinary. In feeling pain & the depths of your deceit, I also realised my own considerable strengths & mortal weaknesses & those of yours. I found a depth & purity of love I hadn't known existed previously. You are the most influential, albeit bloody annoying & moody person to have touched my life to date. Long may the friendship reign, you are my best friend & we know each other very well, in that I rejoice, despite the sometimes sadness .... for that I thank you!
You helped teach me the valuable lesson never to suffer second best in life, to reject mediocrity & know my inner strengths, which are considerable. Strive for what I seek, love with all of my heart even if it one day breaks it. Live life to the full because you never know when the merry-go-round will stop.
*** on a personal note ***
I enjoy walking, have a huge passion for Formula 1 and am very well informed (try a hogtie during a race & watch me fight back) & other forms of motorsport, rugby, cooking, museums, car shows, am a regular little Nigella, bit of a foodie, love dinning out, shopping, love history, foreign travel, visiting places of interest, swimming, the theatre, cinema and all things al fresco (Coughs) ....really have a wanderlust at the moment. Life doesn't stand still.
Potential female friends are welcomed or possible Doms, please come and say hello.... I don't bite on first contact. However, I won't respond if I don't feel attraction or if I feel we do not have the basis for a friendship.
The difference between perseverance and obstinacy is that one comes from a strong will, and the other from a strong won't.
Henry Ward Beecher
It isn't what I do, but how I do it. It isn't what I say, but how I say it, and how I look when I do it and say it.
Mae West
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