| Hi everyone! I'm Zulu (The Diabolical) a experienced polyamorous COMPLEX Dominant man into BDSM and fun. I am in search of friends and heavier players into intense and spiritual BDSM. I am also reconnecting from old friends, mentors and partners from the early 90s to Y2K. I love women of all sizes (Queer, Bisexual and straight, BBW/Fat and thin).
More importantly I am looking to build my Leather Family. I am looking for lifemates to build a spiritual, intense poly family one who can be together and supportive to each other during good and bad times. Always a unit, always family! This is lacking in my life right now. I have several headspaces, desires and kinks. However, I'm NOT a harem collector! If you don't understand the poly lifestyle then I'm not the one for you. Some of the headspaces I enjoy include: Queer headspace, Daddy/girl headspace and intense/extreme BDSM headspace.
Leather Family to me has several meanings. I believe in an EXTENDED leather family of people I have things in common with including kink, protocols and lifestyles and we share similar goals and may use each other for resources, chatting, support system etc. We don't see each other ofter but make time to meet at least once or twice a year. Family but extended family. These people usually already have an immediate Leather Family. I am talking to a few friends about this goal.
I also believe in a IMMEDIATE Leather Family. This would be a group of people who live together full or part time. They follow a certain protocol with rules of the house, requirments in a M/s-D/s relationship. In my Immediate Leather Family I am the Head of the Household. I have been in BDSM relationships off and on since around 1990.
I am not interested in cyber BDSM or fakes who have no interest in the BDSM/Leather Community, I also don't need to be friends with everyone on FL or am I'm not a weekend player! What I need are people who have the energy of sex majik and love of the BDSM and Leather Community including kink and protocols with limited drama and b.s.
In case you really want to know what POPS my toaster, click here for my sexual map, don't be scared!
Due to my profession (I'm a professional nightclub promoter and DJ) I travel often though I consider both The Bay Area and Atlanta my homebases. I also travel to Chattanooga, Knoxville, Nashville, Oklahoma City, Dallas, Philadelphia, Pittsburgh, Los Angeles, Seattle, New York, Chicago, Honolulu, Tampa, Orlando, Dayton (Ohio) and a few other cities.
I don't own a white horse or cape so if your looking for a Prince, I'm more like Shrek. What you see is what you get. I'm clear about who I am. There have been a few in my past that thought they could change me and because of that, they are no longer in my life. As I've said I have before, I have Zero tolerance for dramatic people! If you want drama I recommend Netflix Regardless if you must make yourself feel good, feel free to say what you want about me, just please spell my name right! It's Z-U-L-U!
I have several years experience in power exchange relationships as well as play, but I don't ever think you can be an expert at anything no matter how skilled you are.
While BDSM is important in my life, it is not my entire life. Non BDSM activities and interests include traveling, fine dining, adventure, movies, comedy clubs, and political discussions.
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