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MistressJude

Lesbian Female Dominant, 33, Raleigh, North Carolina US

*******My book is available for purchase. "How to Find A FemDom: Tips for male submissives on interacting on and offline." If you are interested in purchasing a copy drop me an email and I'll send you the link to the purchasing site.********* ***APPARENTLY HAVING THIS TID-BIT IN MY JOURNAL ENTRY MEANS A PERSON MAY ACTUALLY HAVE TO TAKE THE TIME TO READ MY PROFILE/JOURNALS SO FOR YOU LAZY CRUISERS LISTEN UP ------ DO NOT SEND ONE-LINERS, THEY ABSOLUTELY WILL BE DELETED WITHOUT BEING READ. FURTHER, I'M NOT YOUR GODDESS, LOVE, OR ANYTHING ELSE. I PREFER MASCULINE TERMS AS I'M A BUTCH WITH A MALE MENTALITY. I WILL NOT REQUIRE PROPER FORM OF ADDRESS UNTIL YOU ARE IN MY HOUSEHOLD BUT IF YOU OPT TO DO IT ON YOUR OWN THEN YOU CAN USE SIR OR MASTER. AS A FURTHER NOTE TO THOSE TOO LAZY TO ACCESS THE HELPFUL INFORMATION I PROVIDE - I WILL SAY YOU WILL STAND A BETTER CHANCE WITH ME IF YOU READ MY JOURNALS AS WELL BEFORE EMAILING. THERE ARE ONLY 2 PAGES WITH SHORT NOTES THAT WILL GIVE YOU BETTER INSIGHT ON WHAT I DO AND DON'T WANT. LASTLY AND YET MOST IMPORTANTLY - if you have nothing better to do with your time that you feel sending me obnoxious, berating, or otherwise insulting emails because you have no life, no self-esteem of your own, or are just in general a loser spare us both the waste of time and don't bother sending a message at all. I have in the past and will continue to report these mesages to CM - after you get a verbal beat down and then blocked.***** I’m a New Yorker. I state this plainly and simply because I can come off as crass, a bit loud at times, and say things strangely or somewhat abruptly sometimes (not to mention I have the mouth of a truck-driver.) I may seem like I’m being stand-offish but that’s just the NY in me. I am not a friend collector. As such I have extensive references of people who actually know me, met me, and hang out with me from the lifestyle. Further, that means any friend request sent at random will automatically be rejected. I want to point out right from the start that while I'm a female I "male-identify" so if you opt to give me an honorific it should be Sir. I do not require honorifics unless you're already mine but if you extend that to me I prefer male terms. While I’m in a relationship with my pet in addition to being her dominant we have an open relationship. This can entail either of us dating/playing with others separately but ultimately we’re seeking to find someone who will be interested in exploring a poly dynamic with us both, as long as they are a submissive. Until that right person comes along I’m interested in playing/dating/hanging out with lots of different people. ************************************************************************ The "what I'm seeking" type of information has been moved to a journal entry. If you're a submissive or a slave seeking to serve either part-time or full-time (as I'm looking for both at this time). Go to the journal entry to read the details. Otherwise, here's some information about me, specifically. I will state, however, that I am an active member of: FAD, Wingnut, TMG (although this isn't really a membership thing), and Enclave and a frequent participant of Rope Practice. Other groups, events, and ac Click on the 'View Full Profile' button below to read the rest of this profile.

11/23/2011 8:39:25 AM: WANT TO MEET?I'm very active in my local community so if you're in the area or willing to travel to the area you can meet me at any number of events. I will try to keep the list current but for now this is the tentative schedule. This list can/will change and the later months will grow as we get closer to them. Please note a lot of these events are held at private facilities and will need to be RSVP'd to so if you're interested let me know and I'll let you know how to RSVPMay 18 - Private GatheringMay19 - Fem Dom Special EventMay 23-28/29 - Will be in NYJune 2 - Private Birthday PartyJune 16-18/19 - Will be in TNJune 23 - FemDom GroupJuly 7 - Belated 4th of July PartyJuly 24 - My pet's bdayAug 4 - Fetish Fashion ShowSept. - 1 week will be at FemDom RetreatOct. - 1 Week will be in Disney*copies of my book will be available for purchase at most of these events. If you're interested in copies you can purchase online, let me know here and I'll make sure copies are available at the event you're attending, or you can see if there are any copies left to purchase at events. *Books purchased at events are usually available at discounted rates _______________________________ 11/19/2011 10:42:24 AM: LOOKING FOR PART-TIME SUBMISSIVE AND FULL TIME SLAVE There are two parts to this profile. The first part is for a part-time/temporary submissive. This could be someone who wishes to eventually become a full-time/live-in slave or someone who just wants to serve with no permanent obligation. The second part is for those who are seeking genuine slavery. If this is you then skip part one entirely and go to part two. PART ONE: Part-Time submissive 1. Must be available at least once a week. The day of the week can be flexible (as in, changing from week to week which day it is, as this is most ideal to me).2. Must be fully aware that the time spent will include household chores, errands, and other 'mundane' things. Someone capable of fixing things around the place is ideal.3. This position will also include joining us for select -events, these can be discussed and agreed on prior to events as I understand a part-time submissive may A) Have obligations that would prevent them from attending, B) Monetary concerns that would be prohibitive to attending events, or C) have discretionary concerns wherein they do not want to be in public settings.4. Limits, terms, and concerns will be addressed and respected for this position.5. The submissive MUST be good with pets (one cat one dog) as parts of their care will be included in their duties.6. Must have your own reliable vehicle. I will not be bothered with someone who can't adhere to their schedule because of 'car troubles.'7. Physically able to perform - as we are on a third floor apartment it will require trips up and down the stairs (there are no elevators). This is required when walking the dog or bringing up things from the store. Moving things around the apartment as I decide I want to 'redesign' things or fixing things.APPLYING: If you're interested in this specific kind of service you must start by emailing me with the following information: A) How often during the week are you available? (1 day, 3 days, ect.)B) What days are you available or is your schedule flexible?C) Can you, at any point in time, be 'on call.' This would entail being called and told to be at a place at a specific time that's not during your regular service time with me.D) What limits, terms, or conditions do you have? (No marks, no public outings, physical limitations to be aware of, etc.)E) What experience, if any, do you have in serving? (No experience is still acceptable).Anything further we can discuss via email and then can arrange for a public meeting.******NOTE****** All personal expenses will be covered by you. Gas, food if we go out, or any other expenses incurred during your time with us are solely your responsibility. There is no expectation for you to pay for us, nor should there be an expectation for us to pay for you. -Any questions, comments, concerns, or clarifications are welcome at this beginning stage. We can provide references upon request from people whom we've known and met in person or interact with in person regularly. Ideally you will be able to provide the same as this will help the process go faster. PART TWO: Full-time/Live-in slave This is the ideal position we are seeking to fill at this time. This will take a lot longer to process as we will want to know the person very well before having them live in our home and be unattended at any time. As such various public meetings and some 'trial' time in-house will take place before any live-in status is given. This is not an offer for someone who wants to move in right away. This is not a place to escape to if you're about to be evicted or want to run away from something.1. Must pay for their equal share of expenses, which will be divided evenly (including myself).2. In conjunction with #1 this requires the slave to have, at least, a part-time job.3. A daily schedule will be developed detailing what you are to do before and after your outside-job hours.4. Must have a reliable vehicle to run errands, get yourself to work, and so forth. I will not be displaced or inconvenienced because you need a ride somewhere.5. Will require physical abilities as we're on the third floor. Going up and down the stairs to walk the dogs or bringing things in from the store. There is no elevator.6. Ideal candidate will be mechanically inclined to fix cars or things around the place.7. MUST be pet-friendly as I have 1 dog and 1 cat, whose partial care will fall to the slave.8. A detailed household manual, chores, expectations, and so forth are listed on my website. It is REQUIRED reading for anyone who is interested in a slave position. (link sweetsurrender DOT org (no w w w needed) Any questions, comments, concerns, or clarifications are welcome at this beginning stage. We can provide references upon request from people whom we've known and met in person or interact with in person regularly. Ideally you will be able to provide the same as this will help the process go faster. _______________________________ 4/28/2011 1:10:23 PM: PROPER ADDRESS: I am NOT your goddess, your lady, your most worshipful or any of that. While you are not mine at this given time I will not require use of an honorific. However, should you opt to address me I prefer MASCULINE terms such as Sir or Master as I am a butch lesbian who has the mentality of a male. I find 'feminine' terms of phrase rather off-putting. Further, do not profess love or attraction to me in the first email. You come across as a troll, HNG, or just a plain loser. Love and attraction are built from getting to know someone. _______________________________ 4/24/2011 7:38:38 AM: The ever infamous topic of sex.... With women there is the expectation that you will serve sexually. Either you will be called to serve me on my own should the mood strike me or I may tell you to serve my pet while I watch (and then may decide to take part). My pet and I like to BE watched so you may be expected to do that, quietly, and NOT engage. At no time will you pleasure yourself without my giving that order. For men, I have the newly developed interest in seeing what it's like to strap-on fuck a male. As such, you will be expected to accept that, only if and when I decide. I also have the relatively newly developed interest to watch my girl have sex with a man. That, too, will ONLY ever be done at my sole discretion. At NOOOOOOO time will you ever have intercourse with me. A male can also expect to lick/suck my strap-on right before and right after use regardless of who it will be used on. If there are other slaves in the household interactions between them may be expected, again, at my order. Also, male slaves may be told to kneel and watch while I have sex as I enjoy being watched. Despite being a lesbian I enjoy watching male-male action so any male slave will be required to serve sexually with other males whether they, too, are slaves or Doms. All slaves will be expected to serve bi-sexually. All slaves will be expected to serve sexually anyone in my home whether it be a guest or another slave. All slaves will never masturbate unless told. Sexual release should be seen as a gift and any sexual activity should be viewed as being for MY enjoyment, not yours. I enjoy watching others engage in sex as much as I like being watched so that is also something all slaves can expect. _______________________________ 1/7/2011 9:21:22 AM: WHY ARE YOUR MESSAGES BEING'DELETED UNREAD?' Do not forget that collarme has the wonderful feature of simply hovering over a message will allow you to view it. If I see one-liners or messages that CLEARLY INDICATE YOU DIDN'T READ MY PROFILE then I will simply delete the message. End of story.

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