Life changes... if we don't roll with the flow and change with it we get left behind...
My life is evolving with the way I think on relationships. We all have things we need to work on and I've learned a lot in the last year. I'm a work in progress... The best is yet to come.
I'm an open loving person who enjoys spending time with like minded people.. people who know who they are and what they like with no reservations. I believe dominance/submission begins with good conversation and friendship. I consider it a partnership that works with consenting people on both sides of the coin. It takes all kinds to make these kinds of relationships work but without trust and communication they are doomed. I've been involved in bdsm in some from or another for the last 10 years... I took some time off in the middle but it was never far from my mind.
If your looking to get laid with what you consider to be kinky sex, keep on going. I'm not The Domme for you. It's not that I don't like Kinky Sex of course I do... But that is not the reason I choose to be involved in this way of life. The people I choose to allow within my circle should not be looking for just a quick sexual encounter. It won't happen here. Sexual chemistry is a rare commodity and a drug I wish could be bottled and sold! I believe you can have love and sex within BDSM, but not necessarily in every relationship.
I like people who can hold their own in a conversation. In My submissive's especially. I want to know the real person inside. I'm not a Domme who doesn't care what you think or what your needs are. I'm always open for anything you need or want to tell me. But I reserve the right to make final decisions as I see fit. I expect loyalty and devotion from you but also understand that they earned. I'm fair, safe, sane and consensual always. I truly care what happens to you, your mind and to your body while in my hands be it pain or pleasure. I want to know your thoughts and desires to make our experiences together the best they can possibly be. I'm not that tough as nails Domina. I don't necessarily follow the common rules of this society. I like to do things my way. As long as its good for us both I don't see that it's a problem.
I don't consider myself to be a Sadist.. But a Sensualist who is passionate, yet has a touch of a Sadistic nature when my hands are filled with my toys... I do So love my flogger, its my fav toy. I love watching a submissive struggle within their bonds. While dealing with pain and pleasure. I'm as much a voyeur as I am anything. I love to watch people in the vanilla world as well as the kinky one. There is nothing so beautiful as a Submissive and their Dominant in scene where they are on the only two people that exist in a crowd. The focus is so strongly each other that the rest of the world just falls away.
It takes a special energy to make me feel that submissive streak. The part of me that is a girl inside has yet again been lulled to sleep. Ever hoping to be awakened by that one special person strong enough to tame and calm her spirit and make her feel safe. . Someday I'll meet someone who deserves that gift. ...Dear Goddess... Let her be Strong and Sexy.... If the right one happens to be male, Dear Goddess, grant him patience and be deserving of my trust. He would have to go to great lengths to prove it. I am not easily submissive.. but for the right loving energy It happens naturally. I'm also not a Masochist.. But pain in certain ways is enjoyable...
I love finding a place where people can talk , learn and love in their own way. Their life, their choice! It's amazing to me how many levels of this life there are. For each couple or partnership, They create their own dynamic. For me that's how it should be. To each his own. Not a carbon copy of every other person in the bdsm world. Your life should be a place of comfort in a world that is all to biased on what one should or should not be doing with their own lives. Live free and play hard or as light as you want.. or find the middle ground that makes all your dreams come true.
If you took the time to read all of this then I applaud you and Thank you. If you think we might have something to offer each other.. Then feel free to drop me a few lines of your thoughts.
Until then
Be Well Loved
Sunamoon |
