I guess that's the short of it. If any of this interests you, send a message.<3 nymph

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satyrsnymph28

Female Switch, 22, Turlock, California

The short of it:No out of state/out of country mailNo drugs/excessive alcohol/cigarettesNo STD's No submissive men!!!No married men!!! Age limit: 25-45Hopefully that will weed out some people... If you've passed the initial test ( :p ) keep reading... The instant message thing on this site does not work for me. The fastest way to get ahold of me is to send a message. No need to waste your time sending a message if you're much outside of my distance or age limits. It would just route to my bulk mail anyway. Only mail from users 25-45 actually reaches me. Anything outside of that is too young/old for me. Please respect that. If you're out of state, or out of the country, I'm not interested. Within California, if you're farther north than Sacramento, or farther south than Fresno, I'm also not interested. Even that is pushing it a little. I prefer someone local (within a 20 minute drive), who is available to do things spontaneously without a lot of planning (or drive time) involved. I guess the best way to put it is-- the closer the better. If you don't have a car, then I'm probably not interested. I'm NOT an "insta-sub" or anything like that at all. I'll never be 24/7 anything and I'm certainly not your "bitch". I don't intend to SUBMIT to anyone... I top or bottom. It's a play thing ONLY!!! That being said, I don't play casually... you can't play on a first date-- it takes a lot longer to feel safe with someone than just one meeting over coffee. This is a personals site, and to me the only difference in meeting someone on here vs. meeting someone on a vanilla personals site is that you have a bit of insight into my kinky side. Everything starts "vanilla" because it's important to connect on that level. If we decide that our kinks match later down the line, we could pursue that, but it's not a given just because this is a bdsm site. If you're going to write to me, write a lot, and write it well. Your fantasy stories about what you'd like to do to me that you post in every message you send aren't appealing, but a detailed description of who you are would be nice. One line messages will be deleted and ignored, as will messages with no pictures. I know what I want, and I know why I'm here. It's pretty clearly stated in my profile. If you aren't ok with that, then don't message me. It's not up for discussion. I love to travel. I miss going to San Francisco all the time. I used to go almost every weekend. I love the city, the water, and all of the parties that go on out in that area. I also love Las Vegas, but that's a little bit longer of a drive.I'm a switch. I love to top when it comes to soft stuff like light bondage, wax play and fuzzy things, but I really love to bottom. I suppose my goal on this site is to find a skilled Top (whether they identify as dominant or not doesn't matter...) to discuss limits with and play with eventually. I'd love to get back to playing in public at clubs and parties, so someone who was also interested in that would be ideal.I have a relationship with a really cool guy who I like a lot. We've been together for a year and a half. He's not into bdsm at all. I won't be ending my relationship with him to be ONLY with someone else, but I will gladly incorporate the right male or female into my life, should they appear. If you're into drugs or smoking at all, that's not my thing. I don't drink heavily either.I guess that's the short of it. If any of this interests you, send a message.<3 nymph

11/19/2009 3:02:00 PM: I'm otherwise occupied at the moment and don't wish to meet anyone else.I'm not even on the site really at all anymore.I also closed my account on the OTHER sites. I'm pretty far gone from the BDSM thing right now.I'm more into God, going to church and reading the Bible, and developing my spiritual self. I only even logged in because it said I had mail.Maybe I'll be back-- maybe not. _______________________________ 6/10/2009 10:07:51 PM: Lets write something completely opposite of the journals I've been writing here. I'm absolutely pissed. My boyfriend of over a year and a half was found out as a liar a few weeks ago. That's fine, we dealt with that, and I felt like we were over it. Our relationship took another big hit tonight when I pieced together something that had happened that he had forgotten to mention. We went to a swingers party last night. He wasn't hesitant to admit that he'd gone without me to this same place, but it was never clear where it fit on the timeline. He said it was the end of last year, and I just kindof accepted it for what it was-- he had gone, and that was the end of it.Well, obviously last night was Saturday night. The hostess mentioned that all of her parties had been on Saturday nights, and also that she only started having them the first of this year. My boyfriend and I have spent Saturdays together every weekend (unless discussed, and rescheduled for another night for some reason) since we started hanging out. So, the only Saturday we hadn't spent together in the early part of the year was the Saturday right after his birthday, when he said he was going to his dad's house to celebrate his birthday in Sacramento. I was, ofcourse, ok with that, but worried sick when he hadn't called me by 10pm because it was supposed to be an early evening (as far as I knew). He called me around 3am, to let me know that he was home from Sacramento and his phone had died, that's why he hadn't called me, or answered on his way home. He also said that he had gone to the casino with his dad, and drank a little too much (a really elaborate story accompanied that) and that he had fallen asleep at his dad's house.So, anyway, we had rescheduled for Friday for that weekend. (To think how much money I freaking spent on him for his birthday, even though I had just lost my job.) We rescheduled WAAAY in advance, and I thought it was awfully nice of him to do that, because he hadn't really before. Anyway, to make a long story short (kinda) he went to this party that night. The night he made up this elaborate story about going to his dad's house and being at the casino and drinking too much, he was at a swingers party in a house no more than 20 minutes from my front door. So, anyway, this just came out tonight. We were discussing the party, and what was good or bad about it, and it came out that he never went to Sacramento that weekend. He claims he can't remember 6 months ago (but i sure can). He doesn't want to discuss it or any of the details surrounding it, he just wants to put it in the past. As soon as I brought it up, he was suddenly too tired, and needed to go to bed. I was tolerant of his other lies, and all of the information that came out surrounding them. None of them had involved such pre-planning and total deceit on his part. Fuck- I can remember every detail of that day. How he left my house early to go to his dad's, how he turned his phone off, and then told me it was dead because I had called frantically wondering if he was ok, everything, and I never mistrusted a word he said.I feel like such a fool. I feel like I can't trust him again. Everything I worked so hard to let go, after the last batch of lies is all at the surface again. When am I finally just going to let him go, and move on? When am I just going to remove myself from this relationship? How come it's so hard for me? Can/should I trust him again? Is this just a part of all the other stuff that he forgot to mention? Did he really forget how elaborate of a lie he set up for me? Did he leave this out on purpose? I don't know what to do. I'm really angry. It's like he just did it yesterday. It's a new wound that's going to take time to heal. I would not talk to him for a couple days, but the only person that would hurt is me. He would probably be glad to not hear from me for a couple days. I'm truly hating him for the first time right now, and it hurts me. _______________________________ 5/27/2009 9:38:53 PM: yes yes yes!!! disneyland! we're heading down there tomorrow night, and back here on wednesday morning. i'm excited, in case you can't tell.i haven't been in a LONG time. maybe i'll post some pictures of me with Mickey or Minnie or something when I return.should be a really fun trip. _______________________________ 4/25/2009 9:52:26 AM: I'm really very fortunate. I'm a happy person with a wonderful life. Everyone struggles-- That's a given-- and I've certainly done my share. It's what we learn from those struggles that's most important.I promise to:Think before I speakGive you some spaceRemember what mattersAlways love youI think if I can do all those things, we'll both be better off. I was blessed with an extraordinary life, and I intend to live it better than I have been because you never know when the day that you're living might be your last. _______________________________ 4/24/2009 9:45:20 PM: Haha... I find it flattering that someone would bother to mention me in their journal, even negatively. It means they're allowing me to exist in their mind for longer than it takes them to read whatever message I might send. I know who I am, so call me whatever you want-- It's not going to bother me. If you want to label me a "bitch" or a "whore" just because I don't have any interest in you, that's your issue not mine.Spread my name all across this site-- build my fame with your idiocy. Anyone who has half a brain is going to know you're a stupid man who's pissed because I'm not interested and somehow that's a threat to your "Domly-ness"Know that in saying negative things about me, you're not the first, and certainly won't be the last. So, have fun with it. Say whatever you need to say. It says a hell of a lot more about you than it does about me. <3 Nymph

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