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hello,im not looking, but thanks for swinging by.its not so much 'what' i seek as 'who'
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hello,
im not looking, but thanks for swinging by.
its not so much 'what' i seek as 'who' id like to end up with. but that is largely indefineable. listing qualitites is pointless if we dont at least share an equal belief in Ms or share some of the same interests in life generally.
to settle into a rythem with a man who is my point of refferance on all the things he stipulates, is about the best way that i can describe this.
i am a mix of Ds and Ms. i should explain that, but its a bit complicated. basically i do not function well in an egalitarian relationship that dips in and out of Ds (occasional kink). i function better in an egalitarian relationship where minds meet, humour meets but the decisons and directions are always His, never mine. he is always the boss and i am always happy with that.
i dont see Dominance or submission as 'roles'. it is what and who we are and there is no 'on' or 'off' switch, its just who we are, all of the time. Master/slave would maybe describe the ongoing ebb and flow of personalities better, but im reluctant to advertise myself as a slave, not because i cant offer TPE, because i can. but i do not want to suggest that i would be happy in an Ms relationship with someone who is interested in the more extreme expressions of ownership.
the bdsm element is very much a mix and match. bondage is possibly my least favourite, but there are elements i love and im always willing to try things out. i do have a thing about struggling with pain, its to do with catharsis. im not a pain slut and im not into having parts of my anatomy tortured, like my nipples for instance (very sensitive!) but i have a fairly high pain threshold when it comes to spanking/paddles/floggers and the like on my bum. on my back and breasts, i get a bit panicky
i am very much geared toward pleasing and serving, giving, thinking how to give in ways thatll please.
within the TPE element there is the knotty issue of 'no limits' something some people get really arreated about. to me 'no limits' can exist very well between a Master and their slave if their interests, levels and tastes coincide. i also dont like the idea of a safe word, because it takes back the control that i have given within the TPE, but i know that some Masters insist on them.
well, thats about it for now. in the end i am a submissive with slave tendencies.
i have a son of 13, a business and a life in the country that is not relocateable. my son comes first, he always has and he always will, he has the right to hope for that i think. but he has a very supportive dad around so its not a big problem really.
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