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Numerous people write me here without ever reading my profile.  I would request that you do so in order for you to learn more about who I am and what I am about before you write to me.  Please be creative and do not use form/spam email to contact me as I generally tend to ignore those.  If you are serious in interacting with me then express that clearly and at what level you seek.   Client.. Friend.. subservient to me… please let me know.

It should also be noted I do not spend a lot of time chatting online.  If you send a chat request it will most likely be ignored unless we have spoken enough that I have interest in speaking through Messenger type media.  If this is something I wish to do I will certainly request you speak to me via chats.

Be engaging in your contact. “ hi … your photos are Hot.. message me at XXXX.XXX” will not get any response.  Just be real and be genuine.  Tell me what you can offer me not tell me what I should do for you.

I have been participating in BDSM activities at some level for about 13 years. My experience has been derived from the opportunity to be both submissive in role and onwards to Dominant.  Now I identify only as a Mistress and currently have two submissives.. one is a lovely girl who is my slave who lives in Nova Scotia.  We do visit with each other but of course never often or long enough as we would like. 

I am also in a loving relationship with a male Dominant( who is submissive to only me).  He is fully aware of all my interactions and supports me.  He is a partner and mentor to me and I am completely devoted to our relationship. This will not change.

Although I am in a relationship, I am still always willing to meet more people . If they get along with and accept my Male partner then there is that possibility of being brought into the fold.   

As a Top my area's of "expertise" ( though I do not describe myself as an expert in anything.. more so knowledgeable)  would be flogging, spankings, canning, electro play, whips,  fire play, bondage and a few others. On a few occasions I have given seminars on some of these topics to various groups.  I also appeared in several episodes of the Halifax Season of the TV program Kink. I have a wonderful group of kinky friends that offer a wealth of knowledge and support.  

I am not only a Lifestyle Dominant I am a Professional Domina as well.  I work out of one of Toronto's and Canada's best dungeons.  A place that can make nearly all your desires and dreams become a reality.  If you would like to know more about this please ask and be specific on what you would like to know.  This is a great way to approach me as well if you are serious about submitting to me.

If you have questions about any topic that I may be able to help you with, feel free to contact me any time.  I look forward to hearing from you

"To have someone give you control of their bodies and minds,
to be entrusted with the responsibility to take care of them,
to have someone willing to suffer for you,
to forsake pride and dignity to please you...
what other gift in this world can possibility equate to that?
And more importantly, what makes you worthy to receive it? -- Anonymous"