Out of circulation must be a hard concept not easily understood by some, so let’s just reiterate that i am a happily collared slave, loved and owned by Master Andy, or cockneyandy as he’s known on the site.
Andy and i are both lovers of the 4 f’s, flogging, fisting, figging and fucking, and along with bondage and pain our other pleasures include sensory deprivation, mummification and skinsations of various kinds, cutting, abrading, waxing, as well as percussion pleasures derived from the use of crops and canes, dressage whips, paddles and the like.
We are a poly couple, have others within an extended family who have been in the mix from the start of our relationship, although we do not have anyone living within our own household.
For myself i can say that i have been blessed with a very tolerant and caring partner in Andy, he has taken on the responsibility of caring for me with such good grace and willingness, his kindness to me a wonder to behold.
When I first met him I walked with crutches, having Multiple Sclerosis, but was working full time and still quite mobile, since then however my health has deteriorated badly, to the extent that I am now suffering with Osteo and Rheumatoid Arthritis, and Ankylosing Spondylitis on top, unable to work, and less mobile than I would have hoped to be at my age!
That being said we have a wonderful relationship together, keep each other mentally agile and on our toes, and are each other’s best friend. We have taken great pleasure in finding new ways to circumvent our problems regarding our kinky life, making equipment and finding new uses for those items we bought before life became more of a challenge for us.
The way we have continued to feel fulfilled, our needs satisfied and our determination to move forward in our lives undaunted, i hope will be of some encouragement to others who encounter such obstacles in their lives and wonder if they can overcome them. We are always open to approaches from others, willing to give what help we can and are good listeners for those who need a fresh view.
Anything else you need to know about me, or Andy, can be gleaned from our checklists, not by any means all that i am, or we are, given the constraints of someone else’s set of classifications, but it will give you some idea! As i said, we are always happy being in contact with others, so please feel free to say hi and ask either one of us anything, we will try and answer directly, or find resources that will fit your needs.
Oh, if this helps those with email problems, feel free to ask and i will provide either of our email addy's if required for further contact.
***Profile Update***
Last Saturday, 25th October 2008, in the early evening, i looked on as a woman shed happy tears, kneeling in front of Andy whilst being collared by him. And i was happy too. And after spending a highly charged weekend together i still am!
A woman after my own heart, more common ground between us than i could once have hoped for in another had agreed to become an integral part of our relationship. Someone understanding of the need for a complimentary third to make a whole, her needs as much as ours met with our joining together into one emotional entity. Diverse personal needs satisfied.
She continues to live apart from us, that is how we all need it to be, only a small physical distance between us, an amicable separation dictated not only by life but also by dynamic considerations. An eminently workable arrangement.
i just wanted to simply say welcome to frazzle, janet, sister slave.
***Profile Update***
As of this morning, 01/02/09, it seems that janet no longer wishes to be a sister slave, collared to Master Andy. To me that is a great shame, although i respect her decision and wish her well for the future.
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