| Currently taking a time out. Will update when ready for a new relationship.
Until 3 years ago, I wasn't permitted to participate in the local community in any manner. So, the public scene is rather new to me. Perhaps as a result, that's why I'm not much of a casual player. I've learned I need to feel a connection with a woman for play to occur. If You want my submission, You'll need to allow me time to get to know You first... I think You'll find it's well worth the wait. I generally need to get to know a woman and feel as though she knows and cares about me as a person for play to occur. Apparently, like being submissive to one woman in particular, that's just the way I'm wired. To a great extent, I think play for me is about submission and I'm not able to just bottom to anyone carrying a whip or paddle.
At the moment, I'm focusing most of my energy on starting a computer arts business. I know that doesn't leave a lot of time and energy for beginning a new relationship. Yet, I recognize that like everyone else, I need time for myself and time for connecting with others too! I'm active in the DFW community as time allows and other commitments permit. I consider the community here my family and rely on it as my primary source of social connections with others.
I'm considered intelligent and sensitive to the needs of others. I'm not particularly materialistic and work hard at being non-judgmental.. am more interested in what's on the inside to what's on the outside, as that's what makes a Woman the most interesting and attractive to me; anything beyond that is what I consider a bonus. 
I enjoy many non-kink activities including cycling, hiking, camping, 4-wheeling, and photography; along with the usual things people do when they socialize. I have an Australian Shepherd named Peanut I rescued from the pound for company here in the apartment. I'm a non-smoker and I don't drink.
Regardless of your role in the lifestyle, if you'd like to get together to do anything as friends, including taking your kids and mine (ages 9 and 12) to do something, please ask or let me know in some manner that you'd be interested. I genuinely need and would enjoy having more friends in the DFW community to do other things with.
It's clear to me the brain is the largest sex organ in the human body. Properly stimulate my mind and you've pushed all my buttons and set them for maximum sensitivity! I'm looking for that special connection with a Dominant Woman to serve; ideally becoming her long term comitted partner.
Not only do I enjoy service, it's something I need as part of the D/s dynamic between us. I know my strengths and weaknesses and am willing to share them. I'm always a gentleman and would genuinely like to become a better man under the guidance of a realistic woman with strengths (and weaknesses) that compliment mine.
In the last year or so, I've discovered there's something about leather service that resonates with me which I especially enjoy providing as part of a D/s dynamic. I greatly enjoy providing foot-rubs combined w/reflexology & oral worship (yes, I do have a foot fetish) as well as being competent in giving therapeutic, yet sensual massage according to Your desires. You'd say I'm also a very touch and oral pleasures oriented person, enjoying extended foreplay, focusing on the moment instead of any end goals; that I'm well versed in helping a Woman relax and de-stress from the day.
What I'm looking for:
Seeking monogamous relationship with potential for LTR.; having no interest in meeting a Mistress who wants to have more than one sub.
The Mistress I hope to serve will be open & honest, wanting me to know all about Her life, desires, interests, & preferences; willing to teach me what I need to know. She understands that I have the desire to learn what She will teach me and that I want to be a better man. She's the kind of Mistress who respects and values my submission and the many other gifts I can bring to Her life. She also wants Her sub to be happy in an equitable power exchange. She's bright, creative, playful, enjoys teasing & tormenting a man to build his desire for Her, sometimes to the point of being wicked; is sensual, erotic, has a sadistic streak during play, yet is nurturing and loving at heart.
Ideally, the Mistress I seek to serve would share many of my outdoor interests, especially camping in the mountains while exploring nature's majesty. Hopefully, She also likes other outdoor activities such as quiet walks together, cycling, four-wheeling, hiking, etc. It would be nice if She wanted to spend the occasional night out dancing and dining, sharing each other's company like any other couple.
Being honest with Herself and with me, She recognizes that She's a Woman with real needs and hasn't been cast in a mold to fit a particular ideal of what a Mistress is supposed to look or act like. She understands that She's still a Woman who also needs a companion, friend, partner and lover.
Note:
I'm also a father with two daughters that are currently 12 and 9. Regular visitation with my girls is very important to me and they're a part of the package. They don't need a mother as they already have one (a former Mistress). Both of them and their activities will always continue to be an important part of my life.
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