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pompeii
Male Dominant, 46,  Campbell, California US

 

pompeii

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 pompeii

 Dominant Male

 Campbell 

 California

 5'9"

 175 lbs

 46

 Caucasian

 01/04/07

 05/25/12

I'm seeking a kinky sensual friend who is interested in playing a submissive role where you are enjoyed from head to toe as a preciously loved person.

Here's what I enjoy giving:

- restraint (I thoroughly enjoy you being helpless and totally available to me which is the main requirement)
- sensory deprivation (a blindfold is de rigeur, and a ball gag is soooo sexy to kiss you and stare in your eyes w/o the blind fold on while you're bound and helpless)
- collars (ever since I was in middle school, the sight of a woman with a choke collar and leash ripens my enthusiasm)
- courtesy & care (I'm much more a gentle Dom, taking my time than a rough quick fuck - but can do both)
- oral (I love to lick clean kitty when you're bound and blindfolded, and I enjoy the power to provide you orgasmic writhing at my total command... and of course, being a guy, you will pleasure me when I desire servicing of my rather large manhood while you're on your knees, wrists bound, and perhaps blindfolded for effect)
- swallow (swallowing helps ... a lot ... with the whole male:female dynamic, once trust & safety is established, as it's the mental acceptance of what I offer to you that is important)
- access (the obedience of you offering three holes to me at my choosing, not yours, is exceedingly erotic)
- tits (likewise, total access to your tits is key as you must allow complete and continual access, even down to the use of gentle nipple clamps with the erotically scintillating chain betwixt the nipples that I so enjoy viewing as jewelry upon your luscious figure)
Ah, my fantasy evening. Pretty much it would be we'd be together and you would allow me to take my sweet time with you, hours and hours of play where I'd first undress you slowly, verrrrry slowly, making sure you just relaxed and stood there as I, perchance, brushed up against a nipple or two (accidentally on purpose, of course). You closed your eyes and held your arms at your sides as I swept my warm hands up and down the curve of your buns, and my fingers approached the sweet soft inside of your thighs, perhaps parting your legs slightly involuntarily to allow fuller access. 

You'd follow my lead as I gently laid you face down upon the bedsheets, eyes still closed and relaxed as I massaged your scalp soothingly, behind your ears, your tired neck muscles, your back, your arms, wrists, between the fingers (if you haven't had that massaged, you're in for a treat), your back, waist, buns, and again, oh those sweet inner thighs that are warm and soft enough to melt butter. 

Flipping you frontwise, after making my way down each leg to the toes (again, you'll be amazed at what an ankle massage feels like), I might use more than my very strong hands as I kissed and caressed you, perhaps at this point undressing myself, all the while you are prostrate before me, arms akimbo, legs slightly spread, awaiting my next move.

I could go on, but, that's the start. What do you think?

I love having you be submissive, which, to me, means you allow all my transgressions (all of which are the soft type). It's the "ownership" and the "willing acceptance" that I really enjoy. I don't want coy, particularly artificial coy. I'd rather you allowed anything and everything than you played hard to get.

If it sounds wonderful, note that I didn't even get to the part about explaining how I'd have you lie there, arms softly tied above your head so you wouldn't feel like you needed to do anything, a soft blindfold on so that you can only concentrate on your feelings, no expectation of reciprocation, you just relax and keep your lovely thighs apart as I nibble and lick for 45 minutes or more at your little rose petals and rosebud.

First spelling out the alphabet on the little sensitive nub of a clitoris, I'd tuck the tip of my overdeveloped tongue under the hood to spell out A, then B, then C, then D, then E, then F, then ... on and on. At some point your gentle gyrations and perhaps a soft moan or two will betray which particular set of letters fits best for you, and I'd concentrate on them, perhaps spelling out the word "LOVER" over and over again in cursive flicks up and down and over and about.

It would be especially erotic for me if you couldn't play with yourself (hands above or behind you) and therefore your entire multi-orgasmic pleasure was totally in my control. Ah, that's what I'd call a sensual evening!


Always safe, sane, and consensual, I will lick your kitty for an hour, and provide another hour of erotic massage. You, my dear, you need only provide yourself and obey my directives. You will orgasm, I assure you.  It matters not whether you're experienced or young or old - what is important is that you fulfill your desires and I fulfill mine. I want to passionately own your body for the time we're together, to lift your skirt and admire the succulent rose petals, to pat your soft ass sliding my rough hands down to the smoothness of your inner thighs, to hold both your tits, little or large, in my hand, feeling every inch, and especially concentrating on enjoying your sensitive nipples while you provide a gasp of pleasure as I suck them with my hands always busy on your sweet pussy.

This is for a woman who wants to be liberated and enjoyed for exactly what she is; you probably tend toward pleasing others, a nurturing woman who wants for once to be the pampered object of both our desires. It's all about you. You. Your mind. Your body. Your orgasmic pleasure. And mine. Simply surrender your sweet body to me and I'll take care of the rest. A plus if you enjoy your pussy licked and your tits manhandled.  Open to all, whether you're petite or bbw, asian or white, as long as you mentally provide your body to be enjoyed, from head to toe by someone who knows how to enjoy your tits, ass, thighs, even your hair and the little spaces between your fingers and toes - this is a whole-body mental experience of a lifetime for you and for me.

I love reading the history of slavery, and I've seen the slaves preserved in Pompeii. It is my fantasy to be in the Roman era, owning an obedient slave as cherished property, much as we today own our well cared for automobile and motorcycle, each for use and pleasure.

Particularly, I'm fond of placing a collar and leash on a bound lady whose nature is to serve and please, preferably on her hands and knees with her tits hanging down and her buns invitingly up in the air.

My personality is always of scintillating pleasurable wonderment of every inch of the luscious flesh'i'ness of the bound and restrained female form - and the pleasures of her mind as I play with her body. It's all about you. Your tits. Your ass. Your lips. Your pussy. I enjoy it all. You will be enjoyed.

You just need to submit willingly & obediently to my direction. To serve me. To be the object of my desire. Hands at your side, you acquiesce to my advances. Eyes averted, you are submissive and willing, and you are my willing slave. I'll take you any way and every way I can after discussing what you enjoy and don't. Limits are always respected. It will always be enjoyable for you to play the role of my obedient slave girl.

We would start by kissing, your lips to mine, and your hands behind your back as I explore all that you have to offer. Then the rough hand inspection would begin, lifting your blouse or skirt and dropping your pants or panties to see what we have here. A few pinches of your nips and slaps of your tits and ass should remind you of your erogenous zones while I perform the full inspection, and you obediently enjoy.

You'd be told to dance with me, arms still behind your back, with your tits and hips brushing up against me as I lead you about. You'd be ordered to kneel, with your ass in the air for me to take liberties as I see fit with your juicy spots and your dangling tits. On the bed, you'd be splayed out as I enjoy anywhere I want with you and spend my time on your tits, your lips, your kitty, mmmm..mmmmm ... I'm getting rock hard just thinking about what I'd do with you.

I yearn for a lady in her forties or fifties who literally yearns to play the role of a submissive lady in the bedroom. I'm not looking for a 24/7 nor full-time lifestylers ('tho I certainly entertain the lovely fantasy, as unlikely as it would be to actually work out in daily life). But, I am desirous of a local friendship where light D/s is a theme.

The reason I'm here, in fact, is I generate enjoyment for myself by watching you writhing with pleasure, while restrained or being submissive to my commands. I don't know why that is - I'm just wired that way. In normal life, I help everyone and anyone and I go out of my way to help them - but here, in the bedroom, I want a woman who services me and enjoys that. In a way, I'm helping her, and that is what gets me off. I'm just that way.

Strangely, for a top, I like to please and be pleased - mixed up with my Italian hot blood, I absolutely adore the female form in my hands - especially tied up and savored and spread and manhandled as a woman should be. I desire you!

I savor being outside of you, skin to skin, kissing you, lips to lips, even having my fingers inside you, tongue or clit to fingertip, I savor telling you what to do, growing with excitement as you perform without unnecessary fuss (I deplore fake coyness; I reward direct to-the-point action), I will lavish my attention upon you, purely for the sake of you, and our mutual enjoyment of you, your's and mine. Oh, so lovely a thought as to have a willingly obedient, non controlling available woman in the bedroom to take care of ...

For me, this whole BDSM thing is simple - you are a woman to be enjoyed. A woman who enjoys being enjoyed. And, a woman who deserves to be enjoyed. For both your submissive mind and for your willingly obedient body. Whether you are petite or plus, black or white, thin or fat, no matter - what matters is the wiring between your ears and how you enjoy yourself being enjoyed in totality.

The most enjoyable submissive woman will willingly be "inspected", and told to stand still as my gaze and my hands caress every inch of your body. Your tits and nipples will be lightly brushed against as I inspect your overall body ... and perhaps, if you don't stand still quite enough, a nice vibrant tweak of your nips or a light slap of your luscious tits will be in order. Your smooth ass will also be slapped lightly to see how well it responds to touch. Your glistening pussy will be admired at length - and licked and lapped like no other. Here's where we really get into the enjoyment part!

I love leashes, and I dream of leading you around the room with a lovely leather collar on you, tugging like Jabba did with Princess Lea (I could watch that Star Wars slave-girl scene over and over again forever).

You'll dance with me, naked, tits to my chest, with your hands behind your back and mine where they feel like roaming, using your left teat as a convenient, if erotic, hand hold perhaps, to lead you to the music, to and fro. On your ankles, a light soft one-foot tether can be used to further limit your mobility, as it helps if you try to dance, but are clumsy at it so I must hold you to keep your balance.

Prostrate on the bed, you will always be fully massaged and as you are kissed, caressed, and otherwise groped for the purpose of my sensual pleasure, you will soak in the attentions as a submissive woman should.

The beauty here is you do not need an ounce of experience to be enjoyed... nor do you need to dress the part (I'll remove your clothes anyway) ... you just need to obey and by doing so, you provide the pleasure to me as I pleasure you.

Your only next step is to contact me.

BTW, being an amateur photo nut, I loooove to photograph a lovely lady in all types of sensual bondage situations that I can dream up for you. I'm good enough to have done a few friends' weddings so if you're interested in creating a lovely set for your collarme pages, send me a line! We don't have to play to have fun and pleasure. Visual is mentally is as sensual as tactile sensations!

The main quality you need to have is you simply embody the concept when you tell me "I'll obey". Nothing is sexier than that!

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