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The short of it:
No out of state/out of country mail
No drugs/excessive alcohol/cigarettes
No STD's
No submissive men!!!
No married men!!!
Age limit: 25-45
Hopefully that will weed out some people...
If you've passed the initial test ( :p ) keep reading...
The instant message thing on this site does not work for me. The fastest way to get ahold of me is to send a message. No need to waste your time sending a message if you're much outside of my distance or age limits. It would just route to my bulk mail anyway.
Only mail from users 25-45 actually reaches me. Anything outside of that is too young/old for me. Please respect that.
If you're out of state, or out of the country, I'm not interested. Within California, if you're farther north than Sacramento, or farther south than Fresno, I'm also not interested. Even that is pushing it a little. I prefer someone local (within a 20 minute drive), who is available to do things spontaneously without a lot of planning (or drive time) involved. I guess the best way to put it is-- the closer the better. If you don't have a car, then I'm probably not interested.
I'm NOT an "insta-sub" or anything like that at all. I'll never be 24/7 anything and I'm certainly not your "bitch". I don't intend to SUBMIT to anyone... I top or bottom. It's a play thing ONLY!!! That being said, I don't play casually... you can't play on a first date-- it takes a lot longer to feel safe with someone than just one meeting over coffee.
This is a personals site, and to me the only difference in meeting someone on here vs. meeting someone on a vanilla personals site is that you have a bit of insight into my kinky side.
Everything starts "vanilla" because it's important to connect on that level. If we decide that our kinks match later down the line, we could pursue that, but it's not a given just because this is a bdsm site.
If you're going to write to me, write a lot, and write it well. Your fantasy stories about what you'd like to do to me that you post in every message you send aren't appealing, but a detailed description of who you are would be nice.
One line messages will be deleted and ignored, as will messages with no pictures.
I know what I want, and I know why I'm here. It's pretty clearly stated in my profile. If you aren't ok with that, then don't message me. It's not up for discussion.
I love to travel. I miss going to San Francisco all the time. I used to go almost every weekend. I love the city, the water, and all of the parties that go on out in that area.
I also love Las Vegas, but that's a little bit longer of a drive.
I'm a switch. I love to top when it comes to soft stuff like light bondage, wax play and fuzzy things, but I really love to bottom. I suppose my goal on this site is to find a skilled Top (whether they identify as dominant or not doesn't matter...) to discuss limits with and play with eventually. I'd love to get back to playing in public at clubs and parties, so someone who was also interested in that would be ideal.
I have a relationship with a really cool guy who I like a lot. We've been together for a year and a half. He's not into bdsm at all. I won't be ending my relationship with him to be ONLY with someone else, but I will gladly incorporate the right male or female into my life, should they appear.
If you're into drugs or smoking at all, that's not my thing. I don't drink heavily either.
I guess that's the short of it. If any of this interests you, send a message.
<3 nymph
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