| I want intelligence, elegance and bravery..........................
If you're goal is to find some one to abuse you, or achieve some form of self-abuse, or to use some one for catharsis, then I'm certain that I'm not the one for you. I'm not into using people or people using me. So, move along, nothing here for you. :)
Now, if your goal is to claim or discover who you are as a woman and female in terms of domination and submission, well, we've got a lot in common to discuss!
I'd imagine you'd want to know about my experience. Sorry, I don't kiss and tell. Discretion regarding my past relationships are a hard limit, other than general terms. If you want to know about my experience and knowlege, you'll have to ask questions so long as those questions don't require details about my past relationships. I can say that I do have an education but I don't have a certificate of some kind to wave around.
The most common question I get asked is, "What are you looking for?". While it is a question, it's not very specific, or helpful. I could respond, "The winning lottery ticket.", and I'd feel that would be a valid answer. :) Relationships are about learning and discovery, enjoying each other's company as well as sharing experiences. The differences in those relationships are in the context, rather than the content.
That being said, the context I'm thinking of is where you feel you belong. For instance, where are you most comfortable, in a chair next to your man, or kneeling at his feet? When you're in public, would you rather hold hands or have your wrist held? If your man chose a collar for you, and it could double as a necklace, would you always wear it, at home and in public, even at work? Do you dress to please yourself, or your man, or do you only dress to please your man when he's around? Here's a difficult question, what if your man is in a bad mood? What's the best way to get him out of it?
I suppose all that would be moot if there's no chemistry to start, right? I agree. For me, the best way isn't online, or the phone or email. It's too impersonal and frankly downright anti-social in my opinion. Human beings are social animals, so meeting in person is important, as well as spending time together. No, you're not going to catch me shouting, "On your knees bitch!" any time soon, if at all. You'll be treated as a lady until such time it's decided that it's time to go further. With one exception...
I expect to meet sensible ladies. By sensible I mean that you'll take precautions in meeting anyone, such as safe calls, public places to meet, and if you feel it's needed, bringing a friend to chaperone. If there isn't such precautions taken, then I'm afraid there'll be no meeting. Trust is one thing, blind faith is quite another, so, if in the course of our emails we decide to meet, I'll be asking about your safety. In the past when I've mentioned this, some have actually freaked out. If this freaks you out, move along, there's nothing here for you.
As for my looks, well I'm 5'6", about 140 Lbs. I was athletic at one time, and fortunately, I've managed to keep the weight off, thanks to stress and a decent diet. :) My hair is short, dark brown, but my beard reveals my Irish roots, (trimmed gotee). I have blue eyes with plenty of smile lines. I'm told I'm easy on the eyes, but you'll have to decide for yourself.
My preferred age range is 21 to 35, and I prefer a height that is 5'6" or less, (Don't get hung up on your wearing heals, it's a waste of energy.) but it isn't as important to me as the personality. A healthy weight is required, but a few extra pounds is acceptable.
That's about it, I'll be looking forward to hearing from you. Be honest, forthright and smiling, and we'll get along well. :)
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