Time to update this blurb. I have found that I am more drawn to masochists since I am a spanker and I am dissappointed by someone who doesn't enjoy a hard spanking. I have met some good friends here and enjoyed talking to everyone. there are so many experiences to learn from.
Being a Servant leader is something my pastor talked about during marriage counseling (thank god that didn't work out) but the Servant leader Idea always has stuck with me. I think it was a little clarification on how my Dominant side fit into my life. There is no denying that both the Dom and sub get something incredible from the D/s relationship and that aspect of it intensifies it for me..
I hope to meet more honest, open, responsible friends.
