| Submissive, strong willed and creative. I'm well aware that can make me very hard to deal with at times. My work means that I juggle my submission with the demands of deadlines, new projects, conventions and contracts. Don't get me wrong, I love my work, I'm seldom happier than when I'm in the grips of a new story, but it does mean that there are times when I'm in the throes of a new 'adventure' and little or nothing can distract me.
As such it also means it takes a very special, confident, sort of dom to cope with that. One who has no doubts on who and what he is. Just as I don't doubt who and what I am.
I'm lucky. I'm a slave in a poly style household. (I'm in many ways a switch but my dom tendencies come out towards women, submissive towards men primarily. ) I am bi-sexual, and do, on occasions, scene with others with my Master's permission. Why identify as a submissive on this site? Because I'm in a relationship where I am submissive. I have the ability to switch, I don't with my Master, it's not something that works that way with me.
For me someone either triggers my dom side or my sub side, or doesn't trigger anything there at all.
I'm English, not American, now living in the USA. I'm interested in meeting and chatting to others in the lifestyle. All though Master and I are poly we're not actively looking for another/others to join the household at this time. We've had, at one time, both a second sub and a second dom in the household and do not know, at this time, if that will be done again. It takes a rare dom, or sub, to be able to handle a poly household.
I'm not new to the lifestyle, and I'm very confident. The one who owns me is one of those rare men who never needs to shout and is my calm in the middle of the maelstrom.
I'm often online and chatting in between work as I write full time. My work ranges from the mild to the wild and I'm fortunate enough to count myself as a professional author. I'm also an editor in chief, and co-owner of a small press publishing and RPG company. This isn't a brag, it's nothing more than a huge part of who I am.
My Master is also my husband. His screen name here is Oldcelticwolf. He is well aware of my profile here, and has full access to my computer. He also has my password and username, nothing is hidden from him.
When I say nothing is hidden from him, I truly mean that. It's not just a catch phrase thrown out to appease the masses. We live together and we have full access to each others computers, accounts and emails.
We also work together, so the foolish few who try to suggest he's 'cheating' on me whilst he's at work - forget it. We co-own a business together. And yes, I am able to balance being both his slave, and being in charge of one side of the business.
Please note, and it's sad to have to say this, but if you're looking to join an already established household do not then expect that household to change to suit you, or for your rules, wants, needs to then rule the house. Master and I have been together over 12 years, he is and always will be primary/head of house.
The ONLY two IM's I use are skype and yahoo. Yahoo is now only used on my phone as an emergency contact for work. Skype is the only one on my computer and handed out only to people whom my Master and I know very well indeed. He has the final say as to who is given access to that account. Please don't expect me to hand out/replay to you via my work email (which is the only one I have) that happens over time only.
Please note, although I have a new computer, I will not enter CM's chat - Every single time a chat request has been sent it's been without that person asking if I am willing to use the chat program. That, to me, is a form of rudeness. On top of that during the rare times I've actually tried to use the damn program it's crashed repeatedly.
It's a safety aspect. I might be a slave, but stupidity isn't a part of who I am.
I'm pagan, happily so, as is master. If you have an issue with that, then please don't contact me.
So, I'm owned - which will leave some people wondering what I'm doing here.
Primarily - friendships and conversation.
Master makes the initial contact to other submissives he's interested in, but I'm well aware of who. He doesn't expect me to 'hunt' for another woman. He doesn't believe that it's right for a slave or submissive to 'search for other women for their master'. He does, on occasions, let me scene with others, but please be aware that he is always present for such. We're also not swingers, so if you're expecting sex take the issue up with my Master.
If you're upset, or offended by anything in my profile, or journal. It's his word I live by - not someone elses - so his word dictates if I have stepped over the line he has drawn in the sand for my behavior.
Please note: I do not accept friends requests without his permission. If you haven't asked him, and he hasn't told me it's okay, then no, I'm not accepting the request.
BTW.. claiming to have read my profile when you obviously didn't is going to be something I'll call people out on. There are two tells on this. 1- saying something that is obvious not in keeping with my profile. And 2- CM shows when someone reads longer profiles... in the 'who's viewing me' section. Whilst you can on some browsers view mine without pulling up the entire thing, many people can't.
A message from my Master.
Any one who wishes to complain to me, or speak to me about silvermuse must contact me via my account, not my slave's. Be aware, lying or trying to claim she has done something that she has not will only make you look foolish. silvermuse acts in a manner that pleases me. I am proud of her intelligence, wit, and ability to debate, and I do not suffer fools gladly.
Demanding that I order my muse to serve you only tells me just how little you know and understand this lifestyle. I set the rules for my slave. Not you.
OldCelticWolf
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