Ok time for a profile update I think. OK well I am 24 years old and looking to expand my experiences, specifically with a lady, be it sister sub or Domme.
Also it is worth noting that although I have been into this scene for a few years now (practising I mean) I have never once been with a lady, despite it being quite a prominent desire for the last few years. I am not sure if there are many ladies looking for complete novices but here I am. I am very genuine and very open. I am not shallow so please don't be bashful. Primarily I am looking for a connection to build on for that is the greatest turn on for me
Interests wise...sexually I mean...I love control...I would not describe myself as a pain slut...I am not into pain for pain's sake...I like control...mind and body. And a way of maintaining control and for me a way of maintaining a submissive state is through the delicate art of pain, as well as humiliation, etc. I love leather; I love belts, whips and floggers. I love the cane....or I am learning to love it. I like crops and paddles, though I hate wooden implements....though there has to be something that is truly punishment I guess :) I adore being rendered helpess through bondage; chains, ropes and straps. I have not yet been suspended but I know it will come one day! I love blindfolds and gags for these simply direct all my person into a submissive mode with IMMEDIATE effect!
But the one thing that I love beyond all of the above is pleasing my partner/s. I know I am running the risk of sounding cheesy/stereotypical, but it is what I live for. I give a list of my likes because this is the norm and the more you say the more people tend to trust you. But when it comes to pleasing my partners there are few limits (mainly knives and needles) and those which I have I would feel a sense of failure if I wasn't able to provide. I do not like my partner to compromise when it comes to me. So please read carefully and if you think you would like to know more then I welcome all feedback, good or critical and look forward to making new friends.
So hopefully I can meet some lovely like minded people!