| I am a straight submissive male and I entered the real life BDSM community around 2000. Shortly thereafter I started making leather gear, have a web site, and, vend at fetish flea markets. My other skills, talents, interests, and, attributes include:
- unattached with no dependents
- financially and domestically self-sufficient
- a four-year college degree in computer science
- a dry, cheeky, and, sometimes sarcastic sense of humor
- a fan of classic rock and classic Motown music
- basic to moderate handyman and landscaping skills
- basic to moderate woodworking skills
- basic to moderate automotive maintenance and repair skills
- no body modifications
- slowpitch softball player and a fan of spectator sports
- analysis, design, and, functionality aspects of how things work
- when unattached, can be quite the flirt
- still have all of my hair and teeth
I admire a woman who takes my opinions and ideas into consideration, and, who recognizes and respects that I give my submission to her voluntarily. Although I am a bit rough around the edges, I have an interest in what is going on around the world (including the "odd news"). I am happy to talk about any number of wide ranging topics from the role of government to the latest episode of South Park. I have a good sense of myself, have confidence, am able to stand up for myself and my loved ones if required, but, I prefer to follow than to lead in my day to day vanilla life.
Some of my favorite kinks include strap-on play, bondage, sensation play, impact play, embarrassment/humiliation/objectification, queening, and, to a lesser degree crossdressing.
What I am looking for
Ultimately I want to spend the rest of my life with a sensually dominant woman who loves me for who I am and who finds I meet all her D/s and BDSM needs from a male. My submission and obedience will come from an overwhelming desire to please and serve that one special woman - a woman who is a real person and not some dominatrix fantasy. I am seeking a relationship built upon mutual respect, trust, honesty, loyalty, integrity, caring, kindness, and, communication. While I believe that we are equal as human beings, I will strive to make her life better and easier, and, I will look to her for leadership in our relationship and look forward to accepting her guidance in some aspects of my vanilla life.
Her age, ethnicity, and, experience as a dominant is not important, but, I am looking for someone whose dominance extends beyond the bedroom and play sessions. I will do my share of pursuing and I very much enjoy when she shows her interest with some pursuing of her own. Since I am 6'0" tall and love rough play and physical domination, I have a preference for a woman who is tall, curvy, and/or physically strong. I am looking for a relationship that includes emotional and physical intimacy, but, intercourse is not a requirement.
In a growing committed relationship, I am open and/or agreeable to:
- proactively improving myself and my life
- giving her control over more aspects of my vanilla life
- serving a second woman within a polyamorous relationship
- being an occasional service top to her and/or another woman of her choosing
- being loaned out for service (within my limits) to another dominant woman
I always embrace the opportunity to befriend and learn from an experienced and wise dominant woman, even if the relationship does not extend beyond friendship.
Hard limits and things I am personally not into
- financial domination
- cuckoldry
- female supremacy
- forced bisexuality
- chastity devices
- toilet and scat play
- giving up control of my leather business
Miscellaneous
The pics in my profile of toys and leather gear are examples of the work that I do and sell. My favorite product is a BBW strap-on harness of my own design. Click on the web site link if you want to see more or send me a message requesting more information.
I will happily send a picture to anyone with a sincere interest in me. I also vend at various fetish flea markets in my area and welcome anyone to come and say hello to me at these events.
Along the path to finding my soul mate, I am open to relationships for specific purposes with well-defined parameters such as specialized training (i.e. silver tea service, pedicures and manicures, cooking) and play partners. I am also willing to trade services/products for things related to my leather gear. I always need models for pics on my site and testers for new products.
For those who are interested in such things, here are my results from the "Do you have an inclination for BDSM" at Quizfarm (http://quizfarm.com/quizzes/Sex/poeticthinker/do-you-have-an-inclination-for-bdsm/):
93% submissive
75% degradation lover
75% experimental
75% masochist
71% switch
64% bondage
61% exhibitionist/voyeur
46% sadist
4% vanilla
0% dominant
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