Single Dom seeks single sub.
Isn’t that all you need to know? No? Oh well. How about this?
About Me
I live on the Hampshire/Surrey border a few miles from junction 4a of the M3 - close enough to London to visit easily, but not to suffer London housing prices or traffic.
A keen photographer - I have been carrying a camera since I was 11
I enjoy the theatre, cinema, the company of someone special, even shopping when in the right mood (or the right company). I am also quite happy to stay in, curled up with someone special. Life isn't just D/s, who I am with is the most important thing.
I don’t drink, and while I will visit a pub for a meal, otherwise I tend to avoid them. Same for night clubs.
I write professionally, there are things I have written all over the internet. I have a Google search term all to myself that fills up more than one page. However I also like to write for pleasure, fiction… naughty fiction. ;-)
You can see a few bits here. http://www.filthfromfingers.com/
A business owner, I work from home most of the time. I work in IT, although please don't hold that against me. If you have a computer problem then I should be able to help... although I work mostly with servers. Although I am not tied to my computers. As long as I have an internet connection I can work, and I have worked in a few interesting places…
No face photo as I have a high profile on the internet in certain areas and need to be careful. Most of my work comes from internet postings and there are too many people who simply don’t understand.
However I am tall (6ft), very slim. My body shape hasn’t really changed since my late teens (I can actually still wear clothes I had at 18). Brown hair, blue eyes. Fair complexion, I am always covered up as I don’t tan, I simply burn.
About You
I have no fixed idea on who I want to share my life with, although based on my experience with others, a student or professional lady provides the best fit, preferably younger than me and at most two or three years older. Must be single, no children (at all). That isn’t to say I don’t like children. I would like children at some point, just mine. I am not looking for a ready made family.
A non smoker or willing to give up very quickly.
Physically, due to my own slim build, someone with a similar build to me is probably the best fit. If you are a larger lady then we probably will not get on. It is hard to Dominate a girl who can simply sit on you, and sharing a bed (to sleep I mean) is a challenge.
Long term I am looking for someone to share my life with, which would mean if we set up home together, practical things like bills. However if we decide to have a family, then things will obviously change - just as it would in any kind of relationship.
Relationship
I place great importance in the relationship between us, the fact that there is a D/s kink doesn't mean the usual relationship goals and desires go out of the window - so there must be some kind of connection.
You will be wined and dined, days out, shopping etc. Just because you are a sub doesn't mean you cannot have some fun and enjoy yourself. A lot of what will go on will be in private, because it is my private life. In public I hope we will look like any other young couple.
This is not a live in arrangement at the moment, but I would consider you to be my girlfriend/partner with friends and family and I would expect you to do the same.
We need to be close enough to allow us to see each other regularly. Therefore you would need to be financially independent.
I am very much a believer that many things take their own course. You have an idea how you want things to be, but that can often change when you are actually with someone, so the above is an idea of where I want to go.
Dislikes
There are a number of things that I dislike, so it is probably best to state those here and now.
No couples. I don't want to share. No males/TVs – no interest there at all.
I am also not into piercing elsewhere than the ears - naval is ok, but no lower and certainly not on the face or more intimate areas. Seriously, if I was to find a piercing “down there” that would be an instant end of the relationship - you would be kicked out.
I don't get pleasure from seeing another in pain or not having fun, even when “training”. Cane, crop etc will not be used, although I have dished out a spanking using my hand or a hair brush in the past. I have this thing about using the girls own things against her…
I am not in to public humiliation, although like to do little things to enforce the D/s dynamic when out and about... what those are you will have to ask. If done correctly then they can add a spark to the relationship.
Also - I am not in to the "scene". As far as I am concerned this will be a private arrangement between the two of us.
Finally...
Finally, if I have sent you a note and you have read this far and are not interested, then please be polite and let me know. Furthermore if we have had some communication and you decide that we aren't suited, again please do tell me. I am not one of those stalker types, but there is nothing worse than being ignored.
