| I have been in and out of the lifestyle for 7 years and am still hoping that the one for me is out there. I am naturally submissive---this is not just something that I am experimenting with---I have had this need since I was very young and it was freeing when I learned there was a name for it and other people like me.
I need discipline and guidance and a firm hand. I am not a SAM but I do test the ground water from time to time. I need someone who means what he says and is consistent with his follow through. I derive great pleasure knowing I am pleasing. I am not looking to "teach" someone how to be Dominant---that comes from within.
I am honest, intelligent, sexy, fun-loving, social, and a cool person to hang out with. I fit in nicely in any social situation and am able to hold a very intellectual conversation. I prefer someone who loves the outdoors and who is healthy and sane. Yes, sane is a big one!
Time will have to evolve to determine how we fit. And for me to submit and give up control to anyone, I have to have a very strong connection--- I cannot surrender completely to a man without it and I don't play casually. If you are emotionally abusive, use this realm as a way to bully women, or cannot handle muter relationship, then I am not for you. Also, please be over the age of 40 as younger than that and we are most likely at different places in our lives. |
