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I've been out of the lifestyle a couple of years now, but have been active for at least 8 years if not longer. It all just depends on how you look at it.
I tend to prefer to control a submissive mentally, however I do know when to use physical rewards and punishments. It is also impossible to punish a submissive through a spanking or other physical punishment when it is the one thing she wants the most. However mental punishment and rewards are much more difficult to master. Mental punishment and rewards is much more difficult to use because it requires a true understanding of ones self along with that of your submissive.
I never expect a submissive to submit to me right way that is something that must be earned through trust and time. Instead I like to begin like to friends meeting and slowly over time work toward the bond of Master and sub. There is nothing like the reward of earning true submission.
Right now I am just seeing who is out there and all of the going ons in the local world after moving to the area recently. My kinks as one might call them tend to follow that of pushing a sub behind her current mental limits. As far as more physical things I'm into bondage (ropes, chains, leather), toys, lotions and scents, hot wax, spanking, flogging, oral sex anal sex, orgasm control, to name just a few.
I'm well educated. I spent way to much time in college getting one to many degrees lol. I have only lived in Tennessee for about 8 months now spent the last 9 years in KS. Mostly just looking for friends and see how things go not expecting much from the internet lol. There seem to be way to many players on here on both sides. |
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