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" Listening to you I get the music.
Gazing at you I get the heat .
Following you I climb the mountain ,
I get excitement at your feet! "
( From "Tommy" by The Who )
Regarding the "friends" feature : If we become friends - you'll know it - I don't wish to be part of anyone's "list" .
And I don't "chat" or IM on request - if I feel inclined to chat I'll ask you .
IF you are sincere in your wish to find a Domme to serve , along with growing a relationship that goes way beyond the D/s dynamic - read this to the end BEFORE contacting me .
( By the way - I abhor "generic" responses that are sent to anyone , and may or may not acknowledge them at all . Along with trivial one liners . Either be willing to invest a few moments of writing whole sentences - or move on )
Poor grammar , and/or spelling gives a negative first impression .
Because I seek a life partner in my chosen sub , I feel most comfortable with those that are at least 42 or more ( though parameters could be stretched alittle for a particularly mature, together younger fella ... ) . I believe having somewhat similar personal histories , helps the bonding process .
As my partner and sub - you would be expected to provide any sexual pleasures I desire - so I seek one with a healthy , well functioning libido ( not big on chastity ).
Of course you want a Domme to serve . Of course you have particular likes and dislikes in this lifestyle . (that's why we're on CM , instead of Match.com ) .
So - if your profile contains not much more than a list of what you want done to you - probably will save us both time if you just move on to someone else . Bdsm interests are not what I wish to hear about until or unless we get to know each other as people first , then I might inquire .
You needn't write a life story - but some basics about you would be helpful - along with a photo if you have one :
Tell me about things you prefer doing in your free time - things that make you smile or things that ignite your passion , things that interest you in general , the type of work you do . What are your talents ? Have you been married - any kids ? ( By the way - I am divorced with no children ) .
Have you had experience as a submissive in a relationship ( not just with a pro Domme ) ? What do you have to offer a Domme in the way of skills - both personal and practical ? How would I benefit by having you with me ? What makes you different from the many other submissive men here ?
So you know upfront - I'm not looking to $upport anyone - or have them support me financially . You must pull your own weight and be able to contribute to the household .
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I prefer those who are able to hold their own in the outside world - and to others appear to have great strength, confidence and knowhow - but in the world that we create - they will give their all to me. ( though confidence and self liking should remain - if you don't like you - why should anyone else ? )
No smokers , substance users , or more than light drinkers .
You needn't be model perfect at all - but I do not find bellies eclipsing belts to be stimulating - and I like to be sexually drawn to my mansub . I value and respect most highly , those that value themselves , by maintaining their health and fitness levels. Respecting one's own body shows both wisdom and awareness .
I will expect you to perform unquestioningly , any tasks I may assign you . You will certainly know my wrath , should you screw up . Though I will always be compassionate , and fair .
Intelligence , and the ability to converse ( when you're able to - of course ) and amuse , is much desired , and mandatory for a fulltime partner . A sense of humor , and positive , imaginative thinking is especially welcomed !
I am not interested in a 24/7 situation , except maybe for a few days at a time . I prefer alternating play with the rest of life . Nor am I interested in a fulltime slave , or contracts of any kind .
I happen to love masculine men . So here's a hint : if you have the word "sissy", "cissy" - or a woman's name incorporated into your screen name , and/or delight in dressing up in women's/maid's clothing, or diapers - that's great - but it's just not my thing .
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I may also consider a select few local female subs for occasional sessions and play .
Any local males wishing a no-strings arrangement would be seen on tribute basis only . And I have to like you for even that to happen .
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NOW - if all this has not left you too intimidated to respond - that's a good sign . If you wish to be condsidered let me know - because with the volume of mail I get - I am unlikely to contact you first .
If you wish to be seriously considered - include the word "armadillo" in your first response - so I know you actually read all this !
Be brave , whatever is there to be afraid of ? hm-m-m ?
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