Still Seeking That One Perfect Slave Girl... Where are You????
If you are a slave girl and are seeking a good master to serve contact me lets talk about it...
First off that are so many out there that use BDSM as nothing more that an excuse to abuse, torture and hurt others... but if you follow what BDSM actually is then you will discover a whole new world of openness.. It troubles me to hear a slave refer to herself as a pain slut or a Whore one who wishes to be raped and abused by not only her master but also his friends and such. I don't really believe that any of this has any place in this world... and should remain with those who choose to be only Sadists or Masochists
What BDSM really is, is a study in the erotic arts, and there are so many out who believe that erotica is confined to just sex and this is not true... If done correctly erotica through the use of physical and mental enhancement is use to heighten, expand, and increase ones sense of pleasure, ones sense of self worth... If you are a true student you learn early on that both the Dominate or Master and the Submissive or the Slave need each other because without one there can not be the other... they both need to trust and understand each other and they both thrive on each other...
Although I am a BDSM Master I choose to take a different approach to the whole... I choose to treat it as a very erotic experience looking to bring to my servant as well as myself to new and heighten levels of pleasurable sensations...I treat every meeting every session as a new lesson in erotica...I even at times choose to relinquish control and allow my servant to explore on her own the things I have taught her, to allow her to use what she has learned freely and to incorporate into her own personality and style thus adding to her self confidence and making her a more valuable servant...
To properly Dominate and control someone it has to be done with that person permission, it has to be something that is given freely from the slave to the Master, If it is not done this way then it is nothing more that rape or other types of sexual abuse... The art of Domination and Control is base on Trust, Need and Love... Both the Dominate or Master and The Submissive or Slave need each other and should grow to love each other through their co-existence and the mutual need that one has for the other... There cannot be a Master without a Slave, and there cannot be a Slave without a Master... Trust is the only one that the Slave must have more of because it is the slave that turns herself over to the Master for his use, and pleasure it is the Slave who gives herself over to the Master Control. So it is the Slave that must have the trust and it is the Master who must be trust worthy it is the Master responsibility to prove himself to be that to the Slave before she can choose to become his Slave...
My word to a Slave is gold I will not break it nor will I violate her trust… but just as I must prove myself worthy of your trust, she must also prove yourself worthy to be my servant…
During the first meeting the first time together for training I go over everything I expect, I explain everything I want, and everything I will do to achieve it…it is during this time I will ask the slave several times if she chooses to continue… it is during this time that the slave may question or say no and put a stop to it going any further… But if she accepts her servitude is from that point expected without question…
Please do not mistake the term erotica for just meaning sex... for erotica is not just about sex it is the whole being of what we are... Master/Slave and what we do Owning and Training, and controlling both the physical and mental, being owned, trained, and controlled both physically and mentally, it is what heightens our senses, creates our pleasure and controls our personalities... it's what make us Master and Slave it's what cause us to be who we are and why we choose to be as we are...
Sex is but one small part but is far from the whole.... I have spent day’s weeks gaining the control carefully guiding, leading and teaching. bring to the surface the inner most of the hidden desires of my slave, creating and giving so that she will lose herself to my control and yet realize and understand who she is...Truly understanding and accepting what was once forbidden, understanding and accepting her servitude and realizing her submission as a pure act of her free will...
No my sweet slave erotica in not about sex it is about what controls our inner most being, the driving force of who we are, and our ability to understand and accept pleasure in all forms and to build upon it reaching for all that would create ecstasy with-in our souls the perfect harmony of our minds and our bodies colliding and becoming immersed in each other... it is the total of all the pieces of the puzzle coming together.... the act of 2 becoming as one.... Master and Slave being able to speak to each other with out words to know each other deeper than any other could and being able to guide each other with the gentlest of touch, to see through each others eyes, to understand and experience each other pleasure and the desire to build upon it to expand, heighten and to attempt to achieve the unachievable...
Please do not mistake erotica for sex... if you study and learn erotica is truly the whole behind Dominate and Submissive, Master and Slave... It is who we are and what makes us what we are... it what differs us from the others... Because we understand that sex is only one small part of the entire experience...
If we are true to our selves and are truly what we say we are Master and Slave, Dominate and Submissive then what we are students of the erotic arts...
