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Friendship first, always friendship first. My I sometimes like to think about this search in t
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Female Slave, 41, Louisville, Kentucky
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Friendship first, always friendship first.
My I sometimes like to think about this search in terms of 'the five top things' that one needs.
I need intelligence, someone I can talk to, someone with interests outside of BDSM. A sense of humor goes well in here, too, and the ability to take things with a grain of salt and not sweat the small stuff.
I need TPE, D/s that is more important than S/M, M/s most of all - but when it comes time to play, I am on the edgy side, more RACK than SSC. I need a relationship - interaction in the real world, understanding of it's demands; communication, communication, and more communication.
I need above all to be loved and adored. And I need to be free to love fully and freely and with a whole heart.
I need to be active in local lifestlye. I have a lot of friends in this life, and they are beautiful people. I love parties, love to belong to a dungeon when there is one local, love to go to conventions - love to socialize with other people that I feel I can relate to and be myself amongst. That is important to me.
And I need a good beating every now and then. I mean, a REALLY good beating. I am a pain slut, and I need pain. My painplay is all mixed up in my submission and love for me - I take more, a LOT more, as the relationship deepens.
Ritual - last, and putting over my five, too - this is the least important of all of them. But the Rituals that create and allow her to keep a slave's headspace are beloved to her.
A word on distance - LDRs are difficult, challenging to say the least. For the right person, it can be worth it, but one of the challenges is, I do not consider what I want to be something that can happen fast. The only purpose, in my mind, of an LDR, is to spend time getting to know one another and building a relationship before we eventually close the distance. In general, for the right relationship, I consider myself relocatable within reason. Reason, to me personally, is, East of the Mississippi and South of the Great Lakes. farther than that is probably a moot point, other than the enjoyment of a penpal friendship, to which I am always open - although I do not cyber, at all, ever. And I don't use any chat programs, right now. Correspondence is what I have to offer at this point.
I answer all email, and penpals and friends in the lifestyle, esp. other submissives, are always a good thing. There are always things to learn, always more growing to do. |
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