| I am mentally ill, past forty, fat, and balding, and, as my last two attempts clearly taught me, done having children. I have odd ideas about Religion, Philosophy, Science, Child rearing, Literature, Art, Politics, and everything else that matters, and I am damned opinionated about it, too. I talk too much and sometimes too loudly.oh, and as was pointed out in a recent thread, my spelling sucks eggs. Plus, I am not a great lover of animals in the house. I am waiting with great impatience for grandchildren, and am extremely active with my family and my church. I have other disabilities as well. I am not a suitable partner for most people - but, in my opinion, no one is a suitable partner for MOST people, and I am only interested in finding those with whom I am a good match.
None the less, I am warm, sweet, sympathetic, great with kids, a great cook, intelligent, a great conversationalist, witty, with a great sense of humor, a sparkling personality, and a zest for life.
I am the mother of three wonderful boys, all away at college. Someday I will have grandchildren! But not so soon -- all my boys have to get their degrees first. (Okay, it's been a while since I wrote that. At this point, soon would be good. Really, anytime now would be just Fine and Dandy. Srrsly, Where are my grandbabies?)
I have been sober with the help of God and the 12 steps for 26 years. My idea of partying involves a lot of fun and no drugs or alcohol.
My Family is important to me. So is my church and spirituality. If you can't reconcile that with someone who enjoys the sensual and physical side of life, I'm going to be hard to understand. But I'm going to be hard to understand no matter what.
I'm deeply liberal. I read a LOT-of everything. I like movies, flea markets, walking, and a whole lot of of everything else. I like talking, which is a great way to get to know one another and make new friends. Drop me a line, and I'll write you back.
The only things I have had in the past have been 24/7 M/s, but I do not know, at this point, if I am seeking 24/7 again. I am open to corrosponding with people and making friends and seeing what happens. I have also had nothing but collosal failures with poly and have huge fears about trying poly again. At this point my prefrence would be to be in a couple that at least appears to be monogamous, though I can't imagine telling my Master who he can and cannot fuck. Or just not to be in a relationship at all, I have to admit, I am pretty happy with where I am in life right now. Mostly here for the boards. And really not relocatable. And, to quote someone from the forums, if you are that far away from me, what have you done to piss off all the women in the first 100 mile radius of you?
I really like my life right now. Again, - I am not relocatable and I do not cyber, do not Cam, and my yahoo client isn't working. I am here mostly for the boards.
One more minor thing - If you are seeking more than friendship and motherly advice, please be older than my sons. In fact, being done with your 30s would be awesome. If you are younger than that, I will most likely ask you how school is going for you. Thanks so much. |