"  If we have not even met for coffee don't assume you have some kind of rights over me just bec..."

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 unownedredhead

 Submissive Female

 Vancouver, BC 

 Canada

 5'5"

 190 lbs

 44

 Bisexual

 Caucasian

 08/30/06

  If we have not even met for coffee don't assume you have some kind of rights over me just because we have exchanged a few emails.  Don't order me to do homework or give me out punishments. You don't own me and have no rights over me.  Hell if we have met for coffee you still have no rights over me.  It takes a relationship and commitment from all parties not just a deluded desire on your part to make me clean your kitchen and suck your cock and bark like a dog to make me your property. 

Was that too rude?  Do you think I need to be punished for it?  Then dial 1 800 stab yourself in the balls

 I was once told that you are not an adult until you have raised a child, written a book and built a house.

Never thought I would ever be able to satisfy the last one but this summer I have learned to build (ok rebuild) a house.  40 year old house needing tlc and I am thinking after all this work rebuild is as good as building one from scratch.

Been thinking while using my crow bar to pull facia off my house about what kind of a Man I wish I had in my life and I am getting closer to figuring this out.  Redneck with all the toys springs to mind.  Someone to go hunting and 4x4ing and get all dirty with.  A Man who would be able to appreciate all of me.... not just the sex stuff or the dom/sub stuff but the fact I can wield a gas powered framing hammer 30 ft in the air.  (ok that is most likely not what they are called, but I can use it so don't need to know how to say it!  *grin*)

Just remember nobody gets out alive but we can leave behind beauty and wisdom and have one hell of a time while we are here. 

I have seen the imperfectness of people on this site and I have also seen the kindness.   I am a nice person with good ethics and code of honor, I refuse to grow a thick indifferent skin, so instead I have let my heart grow bigger at the kindness of those who have been emailing with kindness and concern. 

Life is full and fun, kink is not the be all or end all to life it is just the chocolate sprinkles on the top.  No one can live on chocolate sprinkles alone.

I enjoy spending time at home, excellent cook and baker.  Love learning new styles of cooking

I have a passion for the outdoors, hiking, camping, fishing, boating, exploring.  Love the woods.  I am wanting to learn to hunt.  A Master who hunts is an important quality to me.

I appreciate a good sense of humor as mine is a tad twisted and dark if you can't laugh at yourself you are most likely not going to like me laughing at you, lol.

My ideal day would be one spent hunting with Master and friends, camping out in the middle of nowhere.  Spending the evening bbq'ing meat and planning what I would adorn myself with to dance around the fire under the stars for the pleasure of Master.  Then curled up safe at Masters boots the crackling of the fire surrounding me and the light of the stars overhead, quiet and comfortable in Masters company before I curl up next to him in the tent to sleep in his arms sore from his use.

Gardening is something I enjoy, something about the smell and feel of fresh overturned soil that makes me smile.  I like to push my bare toes into cold soil, perhaps I have farmers blood in me, I have never lived on a farm but think I would enjoy it immensely.

Swinging a hammer, using a crow  bar and seeing a plan come together has swelled me with pride this summer.

I love to sew, especially costumes.  Halloween is my favorite time of year.  I saw a pic of a naughty goth nun and want to recreate that outfit and I just picked up some tartan so I can make a school girl skirt.

I love ice hockey, my team is doing fantastic and going to the next round of the playoffs.  I am so excited!!  We play tomorrow.  During playoff season I have to admit I am very distracted with one of my great loves, I know it is my Dad's fault for giving me a passion for the game.  I am so sad, I cried, my team is out of the playoffs.

If your looking for me I sometimes hang out in the chat rooms here on this site.

I have always had a fantasy about being in a big cage, like a big birdcage.. I know weird, lol.  Just saw miley cyrus's new video as a big bird in a cage, made me flush and grin.  what a naughty girl!  if her daddy had any idea!  lol