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wanderingastray
Female Submissive, 25,  Oakland, ca, California

 

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 wanderingastray

 Submissive Female

 Oakland, ca 

 California

 5'5"

 25

 Bisexual

 Caucasian

 12/13/07

 07/03/09


I believe strongly that honesty is the best policy. I aim to be honest in my description of myself and in my photos. The photos that look professional, ARE photoshopped, nobody's skin is that perfect. If you need clarification of anything, please let me know.

Life is a little hectic for me
at the moment and I feel this desire to have at least an aspect of it
controlled for me as it were. I suppose you could say that I've been into kinky sex as long as I've been aware of sex. I'm finally allowing myself to go for what I want--submission.


I find myself having fantasies where I get to prove what a good girl/dirty little slut I am for a Daddy. Those fantasies bring about an erotic heightening as well as a sense of security for me. They make sense to me. I believe that the D/s relationship involves both partners taking care of the other one. The dynamic of how this occurs is the underlying difference. A submissive strives to care for his or her Dominant and in return his or her Dominant cares for her.

As far as type of relationship, I'm interested in seeing how things naturally progress. I'd like to have someone to have intellectual discussions with about D/s dynamics and about the rest of the world, but I would like there to be an undercurrent of Domination most of the time. I'm not sure if I am ready for a fulltime relationship, having just gotten out of one in October, but I do want the comfort of punishment when I am naughty, and reward when I am properly behaved. I find it very difficult to submit to a woman, although I love being in bed with one. I am not willing to relocate, even for the most perfect Dom in the entire world. I am not looking for a Master/slave relationship. While I respect that those relationships are capable of working, I need something different. I also refuse to move faster into a collared relationship than I am ready. Please understand that these things are not disrespect of you, but rather respect of my own needs. These wants and limits do not make me a bad sub, or an untrue sub, they make me me. If you can't understand that, then you are not the Dominant for me.

As far as what I enjoy outside of BDSM...well hmm. I am a college student. I am double majoring in fine arts and anthropology. I love hiking, camping, roadtripping, going to museums, and most of all laughing at life's little absurdities. I have "White and Nerdy" as the ringtone for my phone. My favorite movies are The Labyrinth, The Princess Bride, Secretary (duh), Cool Runnings, anything Monty Python, The Usual Suspects, Clerks 2, Preaching to the Perverted and Secondhand Lions. Hmm, I went to Burning Man this year and it was amazing.

I don't really know what else to tell you. Lookswise, I am 5'5, bigger girl but shrinking since I started going to the gym, longish curlyish blonde hair, occasionally with a little bit of pink in it, blue eyes, glasses, pierced nipples.


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