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First off, I've been either interested in this or doing it since I was
19 years old, that's 1
warden1978 |
Male Dominant, 30, Des moines, Iowa US
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First off, I've been either interested in this or doing it since I was
19 years old, that's 11 years ago. I found this site in college while I
was looking to get laid, but what it discovered was this whole new
dimension of sex. After that, "normal" sex seemed plain..........boring
almost.
I
started off being a switch, the best way for newbies to learn the ropes
and discover things about themselves IMO. I've tried being a sub. to be
perfectly honest I find women to be beautiful creatures and I enjoyed
being a sub for a time, idolizing them for their beauty. As I spent
more time in this world, I realized that it was just time for me to put
what I had learned from my Dommes to use and become a Dom myself. I
still consider myself a switch, there are parts of being a sub I still
enjoy and would be a sub again for the right woman.
while we're
out in public or chatting I'll be pretty normal. I'm pretty informal
with the titles and I feel it's best to let people be themselves in
those situations. In the bedroom I'll change into my Dom role, I become
a completely different person. I'll still care about you, I like my
subs. I believe that we should both get something out of this
experience. It should be about pleasure, we should both have it, it's
not all about me. Why shouldn't we both get pleasure? it's true, you
are there for my pleasure first and foremost but I will take care of
you and your needs.
I don't punish for no reason either. I am not a
sadist. If you're looking to get beaten for no reason, you will have to
look elsewhere.
I do own a lot of my own toys. I prefer to use
cuffs rather than rope because it's quicker and easier, but my cuffs
are metal rather than the fur lined or the leather ones.....I want you
to know you're being restrained and dominated, restraints aren't
supposed to be comfortable. Don't worry, I won't cuff you too tight. You won't have red marks or be sore the next day.
Just beware, there isn't a whole
lot I'm not into. I'll respect your limits as a sub, I always do. I use
safe words as well. However if you don't tell me that you're not into a
certain activity before hand I will likely do it.
Also, I do have other fetishes besides BDSM. I love to roleplay for instance.
To
see me on the street, I'm nothing remarkable. I'm just an overweight
guy (if you're not into bigger guys, stop reading right now). Not
obese, more of a power lifter body. I hit the gym 4+ times per week and
try to eat good in an effort to get in better shape. In my spare time I
like to watch movies, hang out with friends or play video games. you
could say I'm kinda nerdy, I know I'm the first to admit it.
I
don't like bars, too noisy, smokey, hot and loud. I hate having to yell
at somebody who's sitting 2 feet from you. I've never got into the
whole BDSM "scene", you'll never catch me at a S&M club. I'm just
looking for somebody that I can play with on a regular basis but let's
see if we have similar interests first and go from there.
BTW, we need to be very discreet about this. I'm still "in the closet" so to speak about all this stuff.
It's all about sexual compatibility with me. Age, race, bodytype (and I
actually mean all 3 of those things)and experience are all meaningless
when it comes to me. Willingness to try new things is all I ask for. To
me, having an open mind is more attractive than a perfect body.
If
you put a gun to my head, I would have to choose a younger woman over
an older one. It has nothing to do with attraction. To be honest, I
find older women to be sexy. It has more to do with corruption of the
innocent and younger girls just look innocent. I know most 20 year olds
aren't these days, especially on this site. Of course, that's if you
put a gun to my head. Since there is no gun, I welcome women of all age
groups with open arms, arms I then use to put you over my knee and
spank you.
I will respect your limits, whatever they may be, as
long as you respect mine. If you haven't tried something and say you
don't like it, I might encourage you to try it first. If you hate it
afterwards then I'll never do it again.
I'm not looking for
anything 24/7. While that would be fun it is not very practical. I'm
looking for somebody I can play with once in a while, maybe once or
twice per week.
As for the age thing, I'm very flexible. I've
had scenes with women twice my age before and women who were 10 years
younger than me. I see nothing wrong with that as long as there's
compatibility, plus there's the naughty factor involved. an older woman
shouldn't be playing with somebody half her age and a 19 year old
should be playing with somebody old enough to be her teacher. It's just
naughty and wrong and so, so hot
I hope I've peaked your interest enough for you to write me.
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